In Her Own Words
About Her
I've been a bit of a hermit for a long time, am no stranger to doing my own thing. I like the idea of enjoying the company of someone with compatible interests. I do enjoy exploring spiritual, emotional, cerebral, healing and self development stuff, podcasts, activities or chilling & talking about that kinda stuff, etc. It would be really nice to share with someone as keen on those kind of topics. I recommend the DOAC Podcast on youtube, most guests have amazing & illuminating stuff to share, and the host is excellent at his role too.
I worked as a care assistant in the community for many years, but have weaned off of that as it became time to look for something a bit different, I stayed too long & burned out. I am interested in the art of healing and I seem to have a bit of a knack for it, altho I am self-teaching & sometimes it feels like i'm going in circles. I wish I had someone likeminded to figure stuff out with. I hope to become successful workwise in this healing sphere, in the meantime it's been odd jobs until i figure myself & my direction out.
I once had a dream, of myself and my (unknown) partner cooking a dinner meal together, great music in the background, blues or jazz i think, smiles laughter & chatting, singing & humming along, & cozily dancing together the odd time, in between sipping on our drinks, & stirring the pots, adding a dash of this & a pinch of that to taste. It was such a wonderful dream. I hope i live it one day.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm kinda put off by dating sites, as are most folks i guess. I'm not really expecting much from this, as I wont be 'selling myself' very well in this, nor in my physical attributes, and I've been single so long that I dunno if I've gotten too used to it, and the dating thing is a bit intimidating. Instead, at the risk of sounding ugh, I'll just be blunt with some of my thoughts, interests and boundaries regarding stuff down the road. Don't pull the 'let's be friends' card, then try get amourous, its not going to work. If you're just looking to get laid, please move on. I'm just not the type to feel at all interested in that kind of stuff with people I barely know.
I'm not interested in anyone who's looking for a housekeeper cook cleaner, I'm much more interested in someone willing to share or discuss & divvy what needs doing.
I enjoy a great sense of humour, someone who is open-minded and curious about how things work, willing to see other perspectives, etc. My ideal partner would be free to go out & do whatever they like with friends, and genuinely choose to remain romantically & sexually faithful to me, and I would be able to trust in their commitment to me. And I would be able to do the same with my friends, and he would be able to trust my commitment to him. We would be able to comfortably spend time apart without fretting about the other's whereabouts, yet we would also reliably let each other know accurate details beforehand, like approx when we'd be home, what we'll be doing. We'd enjoy spending time together, maybe going out the odd time, exploring experiencing or doing our interests together. We'd respect each other, not be afraid of freely sharing & showing each other affection & love, and freely communicate calmly & clearly with each other, including our needs, desires and stuff that interests us or ticks us off etc.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Sligo, Border, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Border, Ireland | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
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Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
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