In Her Own Words
About Her
They say curiosity killed the cat, but maybe she just found a new cove in West Cork to swim in?
Thought I don’t get to do it often, finding a new path to explore or a spot to dip in are things I love to try; exploring what’s on our doorstep is just as exciting as the other side of the world! No reason we can’t do both.
Nearly mid-40s I have a pretty good idea of what makes a good life - good company, fresh air, a warm Malbec and lots of laughter.
I like to be active (walk in the park active, not climb a mountain active); I have a job I really enjoy (it’s my second career) and 2 children who are hilarious and great fun when they’re not looking for more snacks.
Visiting new places is something I really enjoy: from Haiti to Iraq to the Congo and even Roscommon, experiencing new places and cultures is hugely enriching and makes me a better person. I’m not talented at languages but I try - pretty good French and a smattering of a few others.
I’m also a total geek - I love quizzes, general knowledge, weird facts. I find curiosity and knowledge hugely attractive, and going down Wikipedia rabbit holes is a regular obstacle to sleep. I might also have a penchant for murder mystery documentaries but that’s a discussion for another day…
About Her Ideal Match
Curiosity and knowledge is very attractive, with a quick wit and appreciation for the small things in life.
A pint on a warm day, a walk in Winter, a Netflix binge in front of the fire.. with good company.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Cork (Ballincollig), South-West, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Ireland | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") - 209cm (6' 10.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Very |








